Do you have a hard time picking up your dog or touching his collar? Does he run away to evade your hands? Is putting on your dog’s leash a major undertaking?
Many dogs are afraid of hands near their face and/or afraid of having their collars grabbed. Being afraid of hands is often assumed to be a sign of abuse when in fact it is not. This problem can be caused by a lack of sufficient handling as a puppy, by a sensitive temperament, or as a result of just one bad experience.
Being afraid of hands and being picked up is especially common with smaller dogs. Human hands can seem huge to a small dog and almost always come from above, where they look even more intimidating.
Fortunately, this problem can be addressed with some very simple desensitization. We use a combination of treats and gradual touch around the head, face, and collar to change our dog’s opinion about being touched.
Get a generous amount of a very desirable treat. Feed your dog while very gradually moving your hands toward your dog’s head from the side or underneath, not from above or the front. Over time (this may take many sessions) you should be able to touch your dog and gently grab the collar.
When you can gently grab the collar, starting using the “gotcha” cue. Rather than making it a game of chase, you are making offering the collar (in return for a reward) a behavior, just like “sit” or “down.”
Keep sessions short and fun. It’s much better to have a few one or two minute sessions a day that one marathon session.
Here is a video.
(Neither of the dogs in the video have a problem with their collars being grabbed. Unfortunately the two dogs I am working on this problem with right now are also afraid of cameras. )







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Training “wait” is one way to teach your dog to display some patience. “Wait” is exactly what the name implies: waiting for a release before doing something. Many dog people already perform this exercise at mealtimes, but it is a very useful behavior just about any time. For example, teaching your dog to wait before passing through a doorway, going down stairs, or exiting the car can be not only more pleasant for you, but also more safe for everyone.
The reward for waiting is being released and allowed to continue. It’s not necessary to use food with this behavior. As you will see below, I only use food after the wait to get some additional attention after the release. Over time your dog will learn that good things come to he who, well, waits!
When you train “wait” you use a release word, just like with “stay.”. Most people use “OK!” for this. It’s important to be sure that your dog does not move until she hears your release. It’s also good to get in the habit of only releasing your dog when her attention is on you, so you will see me wait for my dog to make eye contact with me before I release him.
Do not use the leash to stop your dog. Use your body to block her and/or occupy space. Doing this you can convey what you want your dog to do without using the leash or even touching her.
I also add an extra step to the exercise. After the release I wait for eye contact from my dog and then mark it with a “yes” and reward my dog.
In the video below I use a pair of traffic cones to demonstrate training Gage how to “wait” at a doorway.
The video is broken down into 4 nominal steps:
There is a brief handout on training this here.